Tuesday, August 01, 2006

The Truth About Ronald P. Arlt

Hi. I would like to introduce myself. I am Ron Arlt’s (aka Jawa) latest victim. I am the HR girl he started dating at work that he mentioned in his previous blogs here on The Chronicles of George…

It all started back on Sept. 19, 2005. He started as the Network Admin at my place of employment. What drew me to him most was his sense of humor. He was especially charming and could win anyone over as he recounted his life as a soldier in the the US Army. It didn't take long to notice the burns on his arms. He said that he had been down in New Orleans rescuing the survivors of Katrina. He had fallen in a roof of a house that was burning trying to save a life. It pulled at my heart strings…He had a heart of gold…so I thought and was lead to believe.

Then I noticed the glass case on his desk. This glass case contained all of his numerous metals…6 purple hearts, 2 silver stars, 1 bronze star…just to name a few. Looking back I was so stupid. Anyone who has actually served in the military and has such honors would not bring them to work to showcase them.

So a couple of weeks passed and I grew to know him a little bit better. He told me he was a Delta Force Army Ranger. He spoke of his many heroic encounters…Desert Storm, Operation Restore Hope (“Black Hawk Down”), Bosnia/Kosovo Conflict, Iraqi War….and he had all the scars to prove it.

He told me he had been married once before, 11 years ago. After only 4 months of being married his wife was killed by a drunk driver. He said they were at the intersection of Park and Preston in Plano driving in his Jeep on New Years Eve, 1994. A drunk driver side-swiped them and the Jeep rolled 3X. Unfortunately his wife didn’t make it. He told me he hadn’t even kissed a girl since then. I was heartbroken for Ron.

He asked me to lunch one day because he wanted to “pick my brain”. Over lunch, he told me about his 9 year old niece Mackenzie, by his drug addict, half sister, Julie. He said that he was fighting to gain custody of her and that, unfortunately, the Judge who was assigned to the case was a liberal and had an issue with Ron because of his Army lifestyle. He wanted to investigate Ron to make sure his home would be a good place for Mackenzie.

Over the next few weeks, this proved to be a tragic choice. The Judge placed Mackenzie in a foster home until he decided if Ron's home would be the best place for her. This foster family had a 14 year old boy and sadly,while Mackenzie was staying in their home, the 14 year old boy raped her. Mackenzie was raped so badly that she had to go to Children’s Medical Hospital in Dallas for a 3 week stay. After 3 operations to repair the internal lacerations, the Dr. said that Mackenzie would never be able to have children. My heart was broken for both Mackenzie and Ron. Ron wouldn’t let me meet Mackenzie, he said that she was too fragile, wasn’t even speaking.

So Ron and I grew closer and really hit it off. I am a patriotic person and enjoyed all of his war-time tales. He was terribly charming and I was taken in by his uncanny humor. He is a funny guy. What he lacked in outwardly good looks he made up for by being hysterically funny.

The only problem I had with Ron was his enormous drug habit. I excused the over 30-40 Vicoden/ Norco/ Hydrocoddone he took daily. I thought he had to have it for all of his war injuries. It was a matter of pain management. On his last mission to Iraq in September 2003 he was hit in the chest with an RPG that didn’t explode. All of his ribs were broken in 3 different places and detached from his sternum. He needed the drugs.

Now I have come to find out that Julie is actually Ron’s ex-wife, second ex-wife that is. And Mackenzie is Ron’s daughter. He was able to tell such devastating lies about his own daughter. His first wife, Lisa wasn’t killed by a drunk driver. She is alive and well.

In the end I now know that Ron Arlt is a Con Artist, Fraud, Thief, but above all else, an insidious Liar.

31 Comments:

Blogger daisyduke said...

I never got to talk to any of his family members. I saw Julie's divorce decree and the paperwork to terminate his parental rights. I still have a ton of paperwork like that. Including check stubs for the time period he claimed to be lost in Iraq...emails...you name it. I am sooooooooooooo interested in chatting with you on this. I know that the Arlington Police Department will be interested in knowing his whereabouts...
It's been almost a year exactly since this nightmare happened with me. His brain doesn't fire correctly. He is ill. I BEGGED him (after I changed my locks) to get help and not to do this to anyone else. I am so sorry this happened to you. Be careful, Hottie, not to let hate drain all of your power. You didn't deserve any of this. Now he faces the consequences for his actions.
As I told your friend who contacted me, all you have to do is drop me a line, and I'd be glad to offer whatever support I am able.

10:48 AM  
Blogger Eddie said...

I too had the misfortune of dating this loser. He actually killed his "niece" off while we were dating. He also put a very serious burn on his arm.

In my professional opinion (I'm a psychologist), Ron is a sociopath. He has antisocial personality disorder. This explains his complete lack of remorse and lack of regard for laws and morals. It also explains his outragious lies. He doesn't need anyone to feel sorry for him; he doesn't care. Nothing will change the way he is. There is no cure, not even any real help. The best thing is for someone to finally put him behind bars for the rest of his life.

I think the reason he finally left me alone was that I made it clear I wasn't interested in a relationship with him. He sent me some weird passive-aggressive emails/txts after that, but he had already revealed his true nature (i.e., he's a complete and utter LOSER).

Email with questions any time.

11:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Daisy!

I am just now getting to read this! I had typed you a letter...

Hi Daisy Duke,

It's me, Susan. I wanted you to see a google alert that came my way. You have to scroll through it, but there is a lot about RA, also parts that refer to him as his alias "JAWA". If you google his name you will find the post titled: "Always a Dull
RPA (spelled out) 02/19/1972...I have his social, if you want it. I think I posted a few times about all the stuff that happened. this time last year was ..."

I was wondering if you were the person who posted this or was it some other person? It is so unfortunate that RA’s entire life was all just a game of lies to satisfy his incredibly inflated ego and support his unbelievably bad drug habit.

He has been released from Dallas County Jail now, around the beginning of Feb he was let out. As far as I know, he is either pandering the streets living a homeless existence, something he clearly has earned, or he is conning his next victim and preparing to destroy yet another life.

He is very smart and funny, too bad he is a hollow shell of nothingness that can do nothing more than hurt every person he comes in contact with, including, unfortunately, his own daughter who he calls his niece. I think of all the lies he told, and there were SO MANY that I couldn't name them all if I sat here at the computer all day. The hardest part of all of this is that he found it so easy to make up the most heartbreaking, catastrophic lies about his daughter for nothing more than to gain the sympathies of others.

Now that this weight has been lifted, today I am as happy as could be. I am still working on washing away all the vile memories, retrospecting back at all of the lies he told while I stupidly believed every one of them. In the end, he is nothing more than a cartoon character, a “mighty morphine power ranger” so to speak. I am very thankful to God, beyond what words could express to be on the other side of this now. I am alive, happy, and free of this monster who tried to destroy me.

End of letter.

I wish you the best and if you want to post back to me I will check it.

1:09 PM  
Blogger Kariotis02 said...

Hey girlie. Nice post. Glad to see you got it out in the open for the world to see.
It was kinda weird seeing my name on there! HAHA
BUT GOOSH, Can't you leave out the "naked pictures" part! (blush, blush) how embarassing!! hahaha.

Hope you and the boys had a great holiday.
Talk to you later

Karie

7:18 PM  
Blogger daisyduke said...

Kari, and dallasgirl--
I check back here every so often, just to see...in a sick sort of healing sort of way, I feel a healing relationship with both of you. I am delighted to see that you do not let the destructive suckingness let the life drain from you. It seems sappy, but delighted is an understatement. There is power in numbers, and I am certain we are not the only 3...

YOU RULE!!!!

5:50 PM  
Blogger blade_runner said...

well, sad but true - I believed him, too, at least for a few months. I am so incredibly grateful to the lady who started this blog!! I almost laughed at the lies he recycled on me when I was reading everyones comments. I had no money to give him, so I suppose I am lucky in that respect.

I know where he works, what type of car he has now, and some other useful information for those who would like to impose havoc. Even his cell number, current email, and yahoo messenger. Sure it will change soon, however. BTW, he goes by Jake Arlt now. feel free to email me with questions or to get information!!

9:47 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Holy goddamn christ.

I'm going to cut and paste what I replied in the LJ post that alerted me to this whole thing.

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OK, so now that the shock is SOMEWHAT wearing off, check THIS shit.

Worked in Nextel IT support from March to November of 2004. We got bought out by Sprint and our division got the axe. You might remember that.

Ron was hired in August of that year, and all he could talk about was how he just got back from working at Blackwater in Afghanistan. Talking all kinds of smack with stories that really were just...

You know me, so I don't have to explain: Don't bullshit a bullshitter.

All of his stories were INSANELY over the top. Especially the one about a topless party in Afghanistan where the crowd got ugly and he had to nut a big bad guy in the face and sprint out of there on his motorcycle, with two strippers clinging on for dear life. There were also the stories of how many men he'd seen die, how many he'd killed, yadda yadda.

Now, here's the funny part: one of our co-workers, who IIRC was named Josh, WAS an ex-ranger. Six foot change, physique that could squat a CAR, but also so introverted nerdy it was, at times, PAINFUL to talk with him. I liked Josh, in a manner. Biggest Trek and Anne McCaffrey geek I've EVER met. Still lived with his mother at the age of 38. Not mormon, but had the same demeanor.

One day, after Ron went home for the day and I was working the late shift with Josh, I noticed something on Ron's Desk: a big framed display case. It was full of medals. Military medals.

I pointed it out to Josh, who gave the ONLY frown I've ever seen on his face.

"Why did he bring that to work?" he said puzzledly.

He then broke down what each medal was for, and about halfway through he stopped and shook his head.

"This isn't right. I'd have heard of this guy from my buddies."

"Why?"

"There's more awards for valor, woundings, recognition from the high ranking officers here than any one man I've known has ever achieved. If these are real... this guy is a god damned superhuman."

Ron and I also got in a very HEATED discussion about handguns one day. The dude was smooth, but if you knew what buttons to press, his facade started to crack. He got agitated, antsy, and his voice cracks when you REALLY upset him.

He quit about a month before we were all laid off.

Holy shit.

I always knew he was full of crap.

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A strange coincidence:

I live in Dallas, and grew up in Big Bear.

Funny world, innit?

4:33 PM  
Blogger TheTruth said...

http://mymentalbodybag.blogspot.com

Act I in the Ronald P. Arlt Circus...enjoy and pass it along!

8:10 PM  
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2:45 PM  
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6:49 PM  
Blogger mavs#1fan said...

One more note of interest, Ron Arlt is wanted for a felony charge now by the Dallas County Sheriff's office. Follow this link:

http://www.dallascounty.org/jaillookup/defendant_detail.do?recno=0e960000-c104-92c0-b68f-62b86749a5df&bookinNumber=08061663&bookinDate=1218252420000&dob=1972-02-19&lastName=ARLT&firstName=RONALD&sex=Male&race=White

7:24 PM  
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8:11 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

hello, just came across this, and from POW network, and socnet and all I can say, is "damn". Curious, if he is in Boise, dont they extradite. they did that to my sisters loser husband. Good luck.

12:02 PM  
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10:59 AM  
Blogger shane said...

susank...send me an e-mail. I can tell you more about Ron. Those medals he had in a case might have been stolen from his grandfathers shop or home.They were either his uncle's from Viet Nam or he bought them from e-bay.

10:08 PM  
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7:53 PM  
Blogger Kalev said...

I just want to say God bless you and thanks for making your story public is not only brave, but you are helping others. I was a systems admin at a great software company and one of the engineers asked me how to get someone's military records. I have a wee tiny set of jump wings on me car's bumper, more to say hi to other vets than anything. Her boyfriend was supposedly all this high speed b.s. that made him a 'mean drunk'. I told her about getting him to sign an SF form 180, even downloaded and printed one for her. As expected, all his stuff was secret, blah blah blah and she, sadly, bought it. All the other cats in is unit were killed, records sealed, usual BS. He even added one I never herd before, he owed college some $, so his degree didn't show up! Needless to say, he cleaned her out, even running off with the dog. To any other women who reads this blog, the records St. Louis sends in response to a form 180 is gospel. I had lost some very important paperwork from the Army and sent in a request. It was ALL there, down to actual jumps, the aircraft and drop zones. I hope your blog helps anyone out there stuck with a 'wannabe'.
Thom
http://www.associatedcontent.com/user/538155/thom_macintyre.html
PS If they clam up or change the subject around real vets, look out.

11:57 PM  
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12:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am yet another victim. I'm so glad I found this post! I'm still in shock. He is now going by the name Captain Jake Morgan.

3:14 PM  
Blogger Megan said...


The guy my ex girlfriend left me for dropped her for someone he works with! Your spell works fast! Of course she called me but I want nothing to do with her. I love knowing I had everything to do with this, wiseindividualspell@gmail.com is the best spell caster in the world.

7:00 PM  
Blogger JT said...

I worked with him in the early 2000's. Too many tall tales. I always suspected he was full of crap. Something got me thinking about him, googled him, and lo and behold found this. I'm not surprised...

2:56 PM  
Blogger JT said...

I worked with him in the early 2000's. Too many tall tales. I always suspected he was full of crap. Something got me thinking about him, googled him, and lo and behold found this. I'm not surprised...

2:57 PM  
Blogger JT said...

I worked with him in the early 2000's. Too many tall tales. I always suspected he was full of crap. Something got me thinking about him, googled him, and lo and behold found this. I'm not surprised...

2:57 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

I met ron at Terrell hospital, I ended up their because I went into psychosis getting off methadone. Ron and I unfortunately ended up at a boarding home together, I bought a new $500 hp laptop and ron told me he was a lawyer and his friend howard Shapiro was his partner. Ron told me I had a criminal case against me that had gone to federal grand jury and that I was facing life in prison so I gave ron $6,000 and he took off with my money and my laptop. I filed theft charges with the police and im pressing charges, everyone now it is just a matter of time before ron gets pulled over and sent to jail. He told me his wife died and his daughter died and he said he got a 250k life insurance policy from that and has a house jeep etc. he just told me to many lies to even type on here. He is now with a girl named Katherine whom he met at Terrell hospital and conning her. He has a serious heroin problem and conned the Mexican cartel out of dope and money saying he was a lawyer, well the cartel has read all of these blogs and ron is going to be in so much trouble when they find that monster!

10:56 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Hey if anyone sees ron or knows his whereabouts call the dallas police asap because I filed theft charges cause he stole 6k from me plus my $500 laptop and my $300 iphone, the cops will notify me once he is in custody. Ron must have forgot that I have the serial number from my laptop from when he raked me dry and I had to pawn it for a few days to get by.

11:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

melanie ... contact me at emailthatidontuse66@gmail.com

9:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ron is in Boise in hospice care.

10:06 PM  
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Blogger mansbestfriend937 said...

Ron passed of a stroke in Idaho on 2/10 or 2/11

1:42 PM  

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